GYAN 240

LOVE IS DANGEROUS

Love is dangerous. A car without brake is dangerous. Anything that you can’t stop is dangerous. Can you stop loving even if you want to ? After you realise that someone does not deserve your love, is not capable of your love, can you really stop loving that person ? can you really stop loving when you are truely in love ? You can’t. that is the reason of all troubles and complications. has always been like that. hence stay away from love. it heals but mostly it kills. love is dangerous.

GYAN 237

LOVE, SEX, AFFAIRS – THE LESSER THE BETTER !

A purely sexual affair can infiltrate on emotional zone and even a purely platonic love can be toxic for emotional health. Casual flings don’t always remain casual at the end. The right love culminating in marriage and remaining steady is ideal.
An extra marital affair means marital discord, being unfair to wife/husband, children. Even without marriage, wrong sex can do havoc damage to habit, wrong love can do havoc damage to mind.

So LOVE & SEX : LESSER THE BETTER AND AT RIGHT TIME OF LIFE.

Imagine a true love, after a love marriage ! In end, its pain, trouble, quarrel,expenses. It destroys life.
So seemingly unfortunate person with few love or sex is actually fortunate. At the end of the day the fact remains that its not easy to walk away from a beautiful intelligent woman / handsome sensitive man, just because she/he came at the wrong time in your life, be it love or sex. Its in our chromosome of men to be attracted to women & vice versa, be it love , sex or both. And to turn away is like fighting one’s own chromosome.

ROMANTIC LOVE IS OVERHYPED FROM TIME IMMEMORIAL BY NOVELISTS, DRAMATISTS ONCE ; AND NOW MEDIA , BECAUSE IT HAS A EUPHORIC FEEL GOOD PHASE ON BOTH PARTNERS WHO SUCCOMB TO IT AND WE ALL WANT A PIECE OF THAT. FALLING IN LOVE, BEING IN LOVE IS PSYCHO-SOMATIC, CHEMICAL REACTION HAPPENS IN BODY AND EFFECTS THE BRAIN OR IS IT THE OTHER WAY ? ALBEIT FACT REMAINS THAT YOU FEEL EUPHORIC, LIGHT HEADED & SENSE OF REASONING GOES FOR A TOSS !

GYAN 232

BRAIN HAS EYES BUT HEART IS BLIND.

YOU REALISE THIS, ONLY WHEN YOU FALL IN LOVE.

GYAN 210

Love has nothing to do with roses, sunsets, candlelights, poetries, romance, beauty, beautiful quotes and so on. Love is just an emotional investment one person makes in another. So like all investments, it needs cautious approach and prudent handling 

GYAN 128 :

YOU HAVE GIVEN NINE MONTHS OF PAIN TO YOUR MOTHER
UNKNOWINGLY.

HOW MUCH PAIN ARE YOU GIVING HER KNOWINGLY   ?

REALIZE BEFORE IT IS TOO LATE
AND ALL THAT YOU ARE LEFT WITH IS A BAGFULL OF REGRETS !

GYAN 121 :

Imagine the few seconds you wait between entering money amount to withdraw in Atm machine and the currency notes coming out of slot.  Now imagine that few seconds being extended to a lifetime. That’s what your life is without a soul mate, without love.

GYAN 101 :

Don’t say  ‘No’  to love and walk away from a relationship because your loved one has caused you pain.  You can live with any amount of pain, but you cannot live with the regret of ending the relationship. The feeling of hollowness inside you and the ghosts of loneliness, will drive you crazy.

GYAN 96 :

Loving someone does’nt come in
the way of loving someone else.

But loving the idea of being in love with only one, does come in the way of loving  someone else.

GYAN 92 :-

Your parents love you more than you love them, period.

They brought you in this world because they had love to give. You grew up loving them but there was mixed in your love a lot of dependence,  insecurity and need. Your’s was Needy Love while their’s was Giving Love.

So buddy, ‘You Owe A Lot To Your Parents’ is not just a saying !  You indeed owe a lot to them. We all do to our own parents. These are facts you already know in your heart . I am just reminding you.

Love them and care for them while they are still around and while you still can !! 

GYAN 90 :-

Yes True Love exists. Yes platonic love exists. Love without gain, without logic, without phisical intimacy, exists. Otherwise how can we explain love between partners where one remains in total paralysis for years, love for one who  has died years ago ? ……. Thats the capacity of human heart. Platonic attachment exists but it must be kept in limits where it is reciprocal only !  One sided platonic love is a somewhat hallucination of heart without any gains. It does not fulfil you, it does not enrich you. You are capable of it as a human but it’s pointless. If a person has never loved you and never will then there is no point in allowing that person to linger in your heart, your mind. It is time to move on. Remember there is always ‘someone’ who will love you truely. Find that person !