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Love has nothing to do with roses, sunsets, candlelights, poetries, romance, beauty, beautiful quotes and so on. Love is just an emotional investment one person makes in another. So like all investments, it needs cautious approach and prudent handling 

YOU HAVE GIVEN NINE MONTHS OF PAIN TO YOUR MOTHER
UNKNOWINGLY.

HOW MUCH PAIN ARE YOU GIVING HER KNOWINGLY   ?

REALIZE BEFORE IT IS TOO LATE
AND ALL THAT YOU ARE LEFT WITH IS A BAGFULL OF REGRETS !

Imagine the few seconds you wait between entering money amount to withdraw in Atm machine and the currency notes coming out of slot.  Now imagine that few seconds being extended to a lifetime. That’s what your life is without a soul mate, without love.

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Don’t say  ‘No’  to love and walk away from a relationship because your loved one has caused you pain.  You can live with any amount of pain, but you cannot live with the regret of ending the relationship. The feeling of hollowness inside you and the ghosts of loneliness, will drive you crazy.

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Loving someone does’nt come in
the way of loving someone else.

But loving the idea of being in love with only one, does come in the way of loving  someone else.

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Your parents love you more than you love them, period.

They brought you in this world because they had love to give. You grew up loving them but there was mixed in your love a lot of dependence,  insecurity and need. Your’s was Needy Love while their’s was Giving Love.

So buddy, ‘You Owe A Lot To Your Parents’ is not just a saying !  You indeed owe a lot to them. We all do to our own parents. These are facts you already know in your heart . I am just reminding you.

Love them and care for them while they are still around and while you still can !! 

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Yes True Love exists. Yes platonic love exists. Love without gain, without logic, without phisical intimacy, exists. Otherwise how can we explain love between partners where one remains in total paralysis for years, love for one who  has died years ago ? ……. Thats the capacity of human heart. Platonic attachment exists but it must be kept in limits where it is reciprocal only !  One sided platonic love is a somewhat hallucination of heart without any gains. It does not fulfil you, it does not enrich you. You are capable of it as a human but it’s pointless. If a person has never loved you and never will then there is no point in allowing that person to linger in your heart, your mind. It is time to move on. Remember there is always ‘someone’ who will love you truely. Find that person !

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