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Love or Arranged Marriage ?

Actually its quite simple – no debates, no discussions required. Simple answer is both ; depending on your age bracket and / or your mental maturity. When you are young you tend to be guided by lots of factors that can distract you. You may fall in love with appearance or voice or eyes or succumb to carnal temptations. Getting married for the wrong reasons are what youngsters often do. So when young or when you are mentally not mature enough, responsible enough , an Arranged Marriage where your elders in family do the selection for you is best for you. It eliminates lots of factors that can cloud your judgement. Love Marriages are for mature, responsible, honest and sensible individuals. Though movies and media, poems and novels tend to glorify Love Marriages of young couples and sell this as a tempting, desirable package, this is detrimental for a long term relationship. It needs a lot of maturity and self-control to enjoy sex responsibly. Lots of marriages happen in India because of advanced pregnancy under the veil of social marriages. Attaining adulthood doesn’t necessarily mean you are mature yet. In India most of the young adult men donot take responsibility of themselves or their lives and when they get married they make a mess of their married lives too. Personally I feel , no one in your family not even your parents really knows which type of partner will be suitable for you – only you know it. Your emotional, physical and intellectual needs are your domain. No one understands you better than yourself. So you should select your own life partner after you become a responsible adult with loads of common sense. Romantic love is a beautiful song of certain duration and it will end some day and when it does, truth surfaces. So be prudent enough to foresee those truths before commitments. Marriages are NOT made in heaven but married life can surely be a hell. Tread with caution !

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​Not all Love ends in Marriage.

Not all Love remains after Marriage.

So he /she who Loved & Married and is in Love after years of Marriage is definitely a very lucky person. 

Marriage is one of the few aspects of life where success is 80% luck and 20 % luck ! 🙂

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YOU CAN ONLY HOPE THAT IT WILL BE SUCCESSFUL.
IF NOT,  WELL TRY AGAIN  , IF YOU HAVE ENOUGH DATA  OR ENERGY  LEFT.  😉

Loving someone does’nt come in
the way of loving someone else.

But loving the idea of being in love with only one, does come in the way of loving  someone else.

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