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Love has nothing to do with roses, sunsets, candlelights, poetries, romance, beauty, beautiful quotes and so on. Love is just an emotional investment one person makes in another. So like all investments, it needs cautious approach and prudent handling 

YOU DON’T GET TO CHOOSE THOSE WHOME YOU WILL LOVE IN LIFE.
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Everybody wants to love somebody and be loved in return. The very first and only lesson in love and romance is :

LOVING SOMEBODY IS AN EMOTIONAL  ‘INVESTMENT’.

You must be very sure of the nature, character and compatibility of the person before you make your investment.

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Yes I do believe in LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT but I also believe that IT IS THE MOST RIDICULOUS, IMPRACTICAL AND BEST TO BE AVOIDED TENDENCY that can ever be !

WE ARE TOO EAGER TO SEEK TRUE LOVE
  BUT   ARE WE READY TO LOVE SOMEONE
TRULY ?

ONLY YOU GET TO DECIDE WHETHER A CERTAIN INCIDENT OR A CERTAIN EXPERIENCE HAS REALLY BROKEN YOUR HEART OR NOT. HEART DOES NOT BREAK THAT EASILY. WE JUST LIKE TO THINK SO THEREBY GIVING EXTRA IMPORTANCE TO A PERSON OR EXTRA SIGNIFICANCE TO A RELATIONSHIP YOU ONCE HAD. IT’S ALL IN YOUR MIND. 
The bottom line :- When you know it in your heart that a certain person did’nt actually love you, when you know it for sure that you did’nt really matter to someone, then don’t label this knowledge of your’s as a Heartbreak !  Heartbreaks are overrated and extra romanticised. It is afterall your heart, you decide whether it “should” break or not !!

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The Romantic Love between a Man and a Woman is not poetry, it never was. It is plain Prose. We humans, added too much color to an otherwise monochromatic relationship and now we are burdened with complexities !