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When you honestly say to your dearest “I Love You” , do note you are not completing the sentence. “I love you for now and forever, with all your qualities and your faults” – is the complete sentence you must say and mean from your heart. When you like someone and plan to take relation to the next level, first know all the faults and irritating habits of that person. See if you can cope with it in the long run. If yes, congratulations, you got yourself a deal in love.

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Above all the sweet ideas, romantic notions, heart stirring songs, poems , movies , dialogues of Love and Longings, above all these trashes, remains certain cold facts: A successful married life depends on just Two Factors : mutually compatible and mutually compensating temperament of both partners And mutual honesty and devotion. That is all. It can be love at first, second or third sight, it can be an arranged marriage, it can be marriage of compulsion ( advance stage of pregnancy etc ) , it can be anything under sun and moon but unless these two factors are present, marriage cannot be a success. It may be annulled or it may continue but it will definitely not be a happy marriage.

The opposite of LOVE is not HATE, it is APATHY

Now, this realization will definitely change  equations of, at least some relationships in your life.

Take a handful of sand and with clenched fist , try to hold it tight. But you can’t. The sand slips through your fingers, no matter how strong a person you are. That’s exactly the case with each and every relationship of your’s, that ends in Death. Body of your loved one remains but the person has slipped out of your embrace. You can do nothing about it ! So why am I telling you this ? 
I want you to truly  realize how fragile, how temporary every relationship is.
SO CHERISH IT AS LONG AS YOU CAN.

ONLY YOU GET TO DECIDE WHETHER A CERTAIN INCIDENT OR A CERTAIN EXPERIENCE HAS REALLY BROKEN YOUR HEART OR NOT. HEART DOES NOT BREAK THAT EASILY. WE JUST LIKE TO THINK SO THEREBY GIVING EXTRA IMPORTANCE TO A PERSON OR EXTRA SIGNIFICANCE TO A RELATIONSHIP YOU ONCE HAD. IT’S ALL IN YOUR MIND. 
The bottom line :- When you know it in your heart that a certain person did’nt actually love you, when you know it for sure that you did’nt really matter to someone, then don’t label this knowledge of your’s as a Heartbreak !  Heartbreaks are overrated and extra romanticised. It is afterall your heart, you decide whether it “should” break or not !!

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ALL CONFIRMED BACHELORS ARE ‘CONFIRMED BACHELORS’ TILL THEY GET MARRIED.

ALL IN-LAWS ARE WONDERFUL AS LONG AS YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR WIFE IS, WONDERFUL   🙂