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Easiest way to be happy ?

Learn to laugh at your sorrows.

LEARN TO LAUGH FOR A MINUTE FOR EACH OF YOUR SORROWS/REGRETS/GRIEVANCES , EVERYDAY. THINK OF YOUR PAIN AS A 3RD PERSON & REALLY LAUGH . YOU WILL START FEEING BETTER FROM DAY ONE.

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Whenever 1 human hurts you, you should pledge your belief in 10 other humans !

Whenever 10 humans deceive you, you should pledge your belief in 100 other humans !

Because, its humans that you have, in this life of yours. If someone did hurt you, there is always someone else who will sooth you. Loosing faith in humans because of an event, an experience is the biggest stupidity.

Take a handful of sand and with clenched fist , try to hold it tight. But you can’t. The sand slips through your fingers, no matter how strong a person you are. That’s exactly the case with each and every relationship of your’s, that ends in Death. Body of your loved one remains but the person has slipped out of your embrace. You can do nothing about it ! So why am I telling you this ? 
I want you to truly  realize how fragile, how temporary every relationship is.
SO CHERISH IT AS LONG AS YOU CAN.

YOU DON’T GET TO CHOOSE THOSE WHOME YOU WILL LOVE IN LIFE.
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IF ONLY WE HAD A DELETE BUTTON IN OUR MINDS !  CREATOR’S NEGLIGENCE OR CREATOR  WANTS US THIS WAY ?

YOU HAVE GIVEN NINE MONTHS OF PAIN TO YOUR MOTHER
UNKNOWINGLY.

HOW MUCH PAIN ARE YOU GIVING HER KNOWINGLY   ?

REALIZE BEFORE IT IS TOO LATE
AND ALL THAT YOU ARE LEFT WITH IS A BAGFULL OF REGRETS !

How to be happy ?
As a child you knew how to be happy. As a boy or girl you had your bouts of happiness. And then you grew up. The statement ‘I AM HAPPY’ turned into a question ‘HOW TO BE HAPPY ? ‘. The world did’nt change my friend, only you did !  Close your eyes, take a deep breath and imagine yourself to be a small fish. Swimming in water ofcourse. Now imagine this water to be happiness.  You are swimming in an ocean of happiness, a sea of joy. There is no escape. Wherever you swim, you are surrounded from all sides , from below and above with simple unadulterated pure happiness !  Now hold this thought in your mind 24 x 7. The first week will be difficult. Ego, tension, temper, anxiety will try to spoil your effort.  But afterwards you will realize that no matter what happens around you or to you , you always have this secret pool of happiness within you. God wanted his creatures to be Happy, your parents want you to be Happy, even you want yourself to be Happy. All you do is train your mind not to forget this.

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