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Above all the sweet ideas, romantic notions, heart stirring songs, poems , movies , dialogues of Love and Longings, above all these trashes, remains certain cold facts: A successful married life depends on just Two Factors : mutually compatible and mutually compensating temperament of both partners And mutual honesty and devotion. That is all. It can be love at first, second or third sight, it can be an arranged marriage, it can be marriage of compulsion ( advance stage of pregnancy etc ) , it can be anything under sun and moon but unless these two factors are present, marriage cannot be a success. It may be annulled or it may continue but it will definitely not be a happy marriage.

The opposite of LOVE is not HATE, it is APATHY

Now, this realization will definitely change  equations of, at least some relationships in your life.

Love has nothing to do with roses, sunsets, candlelights, poetries, romance, beauty, beautiful quotes and so on. Love is just an emotional investment one person makes in another. So like all investments, it needs cautious approach and prudent handling 

Easiest way to be happy ?

Learn to laugh at your sorrows.

LEARN TO LAUGH FOR A MINUTE FOR EACH OF YOUR SORROWS/REGRETS/GRIEVANCES , EVERYDAY. THINK OF YOUR PAIN AS A 3RD PERSON & REALLY LAUGH . YOU WILL START FEEING BETTER FROM DAY ONE.

The most unnecessary  question associated with True Love is  “WHY ? “. Because Love happens and it does not happen for a REASON. Period !

Take a handful of sand and with clenched fist , try to hold it tight. But you can’t. The sand slips through your fingers, no matter how strong a person you are. That’s exactly the case with each and every relationship of your’s, that ends in Death. Body of your loved one remains but the person has slipped out of your embrace. You can do nothing about it ! So why am I telling you this ? 
I want you to truly  realize how fragile, how temporary every relationship is.
SO CHERISH IT AS LONG AS YOU CAN.

THE GREATEST DICTATOR IN THIS WORLD IS  HUNGER

THE GREATEST TERRORIST  IN THIS WORLD IS DEATH

THE BEST LANGUAGE IN THIS WORLD IS MONEY

THE GREATEST ILLUSION IN THIS WORLD IS : LOVE

THE MOST PRECIOUS IN THIS WORLD IS : PEACE

THE ONLY PURPOSE IN THIS LIFE SHOULD BE : HAPPINESS

THE MOST WORTHWHILE IN THIS LIFE IS : HEALTH

YOUR ONLY FRIENDS IN THIS WORLD ARE YOUR SENSE OF REASONING & YOUR INTELLIGENCE

GREATEST HEALER IN LIFE  :  TIME