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EVERY MORNING, YOU GET A CHANCE TO FORGET AND START AFRESH. You get a chance to forget your loss, your mistakes, your pain ….., but you cling on to it. You cling on to your past, your misgivings, death, fights, tragedy, detrimental habits. Life has no Pause button, it goes on, while you stop and lament. I know its easy to write but difficult to forget great losses. But your tears, sighs and lamentations won’t fill up your emptiness, it’s not that easy. So be with life, use one morning, any morning, to start afresh. From our childhood we are trained to remember but not to forget. But forgetting is an essential part of healthy living. Forget negative events, characters. Gift yourself a new chapter. Believe me when I say this : You take the first step, life & time will help you after that.

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BRAIN HAS EYES BUT HEART IS BLIND.

YOU REALISE THIS, ONLY WHEN YOU FALL IN LOVE.

THERE ARE NO REWRITES IN LIFE, ONLY SECOND CHANCES.

Love or Arranged Marriage ?

Actually its quite simple – no debates, no discussions required. Simple answer is both ; depending on your age bracket and / or your mental maturity. When you are young you tend to be guided by lots of factors that can distract you. You may fall in love with appearance or voice or eyes or succumb to carnal temptations. Getting married for the wrong reasons are what youngsters often do. So when young or when you are mentally not mature enough, responsible enough , an Arranged Marriage where your elders in family do the selection for you is best for you. It eliminates lots of factors that can cloud your judgement. Love Marriages are for mature, responsible, honest and sensible individuals. Though movies and media, poems and novels tend to glorify Love Marriages of young couples and sell this as a tempting, desirable package, this is detrimental for a long term relationship. It needs a lot of maturity and self-control to enjoy sex responsibly. Lots of marriages happen in India because of advanced pregnancy under the veil of social marriages. Attaining adulthood doesn’t necessarily mean you are mature yet. In India most of the young adult men donot take responsibility of themselves or their lives and when they get married they make a mess of their married lives too. Personally I feel , no one in your family not even your parents really knows which type of partner will be suitable for you – only you know it. Your emotional, physical and intellectual needs are your domain. No one understands you better than yourself. So you should select your own life partner after you become a responsible adult with loads of common sense. Romantic love is a beautiful song of certain duration and it will end some day and when it does, truth surfaces. So be prudent enough to foresee those truths before commitments. Marriages are NOT made in heaven but married life can surely be a hell. Tread with caution !

Ten may love you a river each, but you spend your life worrying about how much a certain ONE loves you, whom YOU love a river.  That’s the bane of being human !

Love At First Sight is the most terrible thing that can happen to you. You have fallen in love with someone you don’t know, don’t understand yet. And truly loving someone is not a switch that can be turned off, if you find later on, that he / she is not the right one for you. Its an emotional investment you made without knowing the basics. So Love At First Sight happens and it happens mostly to the unfortunates.

YOU DON’T GET TO CHOOSE THOSE WHOME YOU WILL LOVE IN LIFE.
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