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Ten may love you a river each, but you spend your life worrying about how much a certain ONE loves you, whom YOU love a river.  That’s the bane of being human !

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Love At First Sight is the most terrible thing that can happen to you. You have fallen in love with someone you don’t know, don’t understand yet. And truly loving someone is not a switch that can be turned off, if you find later on, that he / she is not the right one for you. Its an emotional investment you made without knowing the basics. So Love At First Sight happens and it happens mostly to the unfortunates.

YOU DON’T GET TO CHOOSE THOSE WHOME YOU WILL LOVE IN LIFE.
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ONLY YOU GET TO DECIDE WHETHER A CERTAIN INCIDENT OR A CERTAIN EXPERIENCE HAS REALLY BROKEN YOUR HEART OR NOT. HEART DOES NOT BREAK THAT EASILY. WE JUST LIKE TO THINK SO THEREBY GIVING EXTRA IMPORTANCE TO A PERSON OR EXTRA SIGNIFICANCE TO A RELATIONSHIP YOU ONCE HAD. IT’S ALL IN YOUR MIND. 
The bottom line :- When you know it in your heart that a certain person did’nt actually love you, when you know it for sure that you did’nt really matter to someone, then don’t label this knowledge of your’s as a Heartbreak !  Heartbreaks are overrated and extra romanticised. It is afterall your heart, you decide whether it “should” break or not !!

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Love decoded :

It has often been said that :

LOVE CAN NEVER BE UNDERSTOOD, IT CAN ONLY BE FELT  IN YOUR HEART ETC

I  disagree. What you cannot understand with your intelligence or analyze with your reason is NOT LOVE, it can’t be something so important as love. It is something else.

Love at first sight i.e on appearance or voice or any outward aspect is a very basic attraction, the elements of which are embedded in our genes, to each his/ her own. Its the passion fruit that we all have deep inside us. 

Which man or woman will seem appealing to u, what will be his / her appearance, manner or nature that will attract you, is ur basic attraction code that u are born with.  A rough theory can work at times like physical contrast. Fair complexion finds dark attractive and vice versa, tall finds short attractive and vice versa, a person who is overweight, rollypolly will find one with a bony structure attractive  and vice versa.

Ex :  You know that as a girlfriend or wife, a lady who is patient, good listener, understanding will be appropriate for you but yet , you have been head over heals in love with a reckless, impatient  lady with beautiful eyes and smile for the last 4 years.  You know this very well that her eyes or smile can’t be attributed as her qualities, can’t promise you a happy life but still beautiful eyes and smile of a lady or any lady are your weak points. That weakness is in your genes, it is nature’s gift to you for primal attraction leading to procreation  ! 

HENCE IT IS NOT LOVE BUT YOUR NATURAL WEAK POINT THAT YOU MUST NOT SUCCOMB TO.  YOU CAN CALL IT INFATUATION, ROMANTIC WEAKNESS  OR GIVE IT A NEW NAME BUT PLEASE DO NOT CALL IT LOVE.  THE ROOTS OF LOVE GO DEEP !

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