Above all the sweet ideas, romantic notions, heart stirring songs, poems , movies , dialogues of Love and Longings, above all these trashes, remains certain cold facts: A successful married life depends on just Two Factors : mutually compatible and mutually compensating temperament of both partners And mutual honesty and devotion. That is all. It can be love at first, second or third sight, it can be an arranged marriage, it can be marriage of compulsion ( advance stage of pregnancy etc ) , it can be anything under sun and moon but unless these two factors are present, marriage cannot be a success. It may be annulled or it may continue but it will definitely not be a happy marriage.

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​What if, the life that u are living & experience that u are having is actually a dream you are dreaming while sleeping in a different planet ? And dyeing here is just waking up there ? 

The opposite of LOVE is not HATE, it is APATHY

Now, this realization will definitely change  equations of, at least some relationships in your life.

Love has nothing to do with roses, sunsets, candlelights, poetries, romance, beauty, beautiful quotes and so on. Love is just an emotional investment one person makes in another. So like all investments, it needs cautious approach and prudent handling 

You have been brainwashed from your childhood, by parents, school, college, church, temples, religious bodies and legal framework – TO BE GOOD. What if you grew up without this brainwashing procedure ? How would you have turned out to be, today ? I wander ! 🙂

YOU   BELIEVE / HAVE FAITH  IN GOD 

BUT

DOES  GOD   BELIEVE / HAVE FAITH  IN YOU  ?

Easiest way to be happy ?

Learn to laugh at your sorrows.

LEARN TO LAUGH FOR A MINUTE FOR EACH OF YOUR SORROWS/REGRETS/GRIEVANCES , EVERYDAY. THINK OF YOUR PAIN AS A 3RD PERSON & REALLY LAUGH . YOU WILL START FEEING BETTER FROM DAY ONE.