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​Not all Love ends in Marriage.

Not all Love remains after Marriage.

So he /she who Loved & Married and is in Love after years of Marriage is definitely a very lucky person. 

Marriage is one of the few aspects of life where success is 80% luck and 20 % luck ! 🙂

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​GOD does not answer or explain, that is why HE is GOD. And I thought rudeness is a vice ! 

Love At First Sight is the most terrible thing that can happen to you. You have fallen in love with someone you don’t know, don’t understand yet. And truly loving someone is not a switch that can be turned off, if you find later on, that he / she is not the right one for you. Its an emotional investment you made without knowing the basics. So Love At First Sight happens and it happens mostly to the unfortunates.

​Sunrise is GOD’s way of throwing light on all the things HE created, for you to see & admire. Quiet an attention seeker HE is , eh ? 🙂

​When self declared Godmen commit crimes and are punished, its good news for me and millions of other rationalists / actualists but a degree of dissatisfaction remains in me which could have been wiped clean if those fanatics and believers who followed these Godmen were also punished to some lesser degrees. I do realize ofcourse that this is practically not viable. Its easy to punish a self declared Godman like Baba Ram Rahim for raping two women disciples for two years but how can Baba’s 5 crore followers be punished ? That being said, the fact remains that, a major part of common people still remains gullible and naive. They love to believe in miracles and they crave for some miracle to happen in their mundane lives that will take care of all their problems , afflictions and miseries. They believe in Godmen because they want to believe in someone with more powers than human. And almost always a lion part of these believers become fanatics. Religious fanatism is more deadly than any organized crime because it can do any harm to anyone who opposes the belief and comes very close to organized terrorism. Fanatics unfortunately have answers for all questions which rationalists don’t. Logic and reason can’t give you an answer as to what happens after death but fanatics can. For them there is a heaven and a hell and a God and sins and punishments …… so on.  Concepts based not on evidence but faith. Faith is nothing but ‘ I LOVE TO BELIEVE AND I WILL ‘ with arrogance. For fanatics there is nothing as accidents , for them everything happens for a reason. Everything that occurs in this world of ours has an intention, a will of someone far superior than us. Its a kind of childhood innocense that makes us believe in Batman and Superman. 

Self declared Godmen all over the world take benefit of this faith factor of people, spend a considerable amount of money for welfare of commoners which for them is just and investment and establish themselves as Godmen. We love to believe that God is watching us, will take care of us, so when another human takes care of our problems with care, kind words, help and money, we fit him /her in the next best position available that is Godman. Life is pretty simple. You work, you earn, you survive, you die. Whatever happens to you – an accident, a decease, a heart break, a tragedy …… – just happens. Cause & effect, or just sheer chance factor. There are no theories, no explanations, no bookkeeping of your good deeds and sins, no miracles, no heaven or hell. 

I guess the believers know all these already but choose not give room to reasons.

Above all the sweet ideas, romantic notions, heart stirring songs, poems , movies , dialogues of Love and Longings, above all these trashes, remains certain cold facts: A successful married life depends on just Two Factors : mutually compatible and mutually compensating temperament of both partners And mutual honesty and devotion. That is all. It can be love at first, second or third sight, it can be an arranged marriage, it can be marriage of compulsion ( advance stage of pregnancy etc ) , it can be anything under sun and moon but unless these two factors are present, marriage cannot be a success. It may be annulled or it may continue but it will definitely not be a happy marriage.

​What if, the life that u are living & experience that u are having is actually a dream you are dreaming while sleeping in a different planet ? And dyeing here is just waking up there ?