Every one of us have a certain Fate Pattern. You may have wondered at times ” Why is it that I always get the blame ? ”  or  ” Why do people take me for granted ? ”  and such other thoughts, the bottomline being  ” Why me ” ?!  We are all Lucky in some aspects and unlucky in others. If you analyze your life with retrospective effect, you will discover a pattern. You will discover ‘the road’ that is safe for you and ‘the road’ that is’nt. Just think about past events and experiences and chalk your future course.  Believe me, this does not mean , you are scared of the future.  You are just being clever and wise.