You always want to know  ‘What kind of a person you are’  is’nt it ?  Friends define you, loved ones describe you, colleagues say things about you  …… and you quitely think  ” Well close enough but not exactly !  “.  Just try to remember the child that was You.  The child in school going days. The core of that child is you. With age & experience you put on a few layers  on that core, like dresses but the  Real You is within. You can, fortunately or unfortunately, never  change the core !